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Things will go wrong, there will come trials.  We might believe we’ll know what we’ll say or how we’ll respond if they do.  But what actually happens when those moments come to pass reveals the truth and authenticity of our true character.  Those moments will prove to be our testimony.

People are like stained-glass windows.
They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,
but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed
only if there is a light from within.  

— Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

 

 

On a recent flight to Memphis, I was seated with a woman by the window who had a baby on her lap and a toddler between us. She was very attentive to them both, using an assortment of snacks, toys, and other items to keep them quiet and comfortable. 

Despite mom's best efforts, the baby got choked, causing her to generously spit up. Later, as we were landing, the older child's ears were hurting due to the pressure change, triggering a sudden vomitus reaction that soaked her mother's attire. Whoa!

 

Trials teach us what we are; they dig up the soil,

and let us see what we are made of. 

—  Charles Spurgeon

 

What happened next was an authentic expression of her testimony and character. (Having learned some elements about her story from conversation and observation) She paused with a caring look, responded with kind words of empathy, and then calmly cleaned herself up as we gathered all the tissues and towels we could find. 

We all have a testimony or a personal account about our values and beliefs, but our credibility and authenticity are made known in these trials. It's so hard to stay true.

Let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. 

—  James 1:22

 

Masks and makeup only last so long. What is seen when our essence is revealed?

Primary evidence of our spiritual and emotional maturity is how we respond when people throw up on us, leaving a stinky mess, and we're stuck with cleaning it up.

Highly effective educators wisely face conflict with courage, trials with temperance. We figure out how to stay strong when tested by colleagues, students, or situations because all that we may suffer in this life pales in comparison to the eternal rewards.

When you can be steady and strong in those trials, the quality of your testimony, especially as an educator will change lives.

Scott Barron

Scott E. Barron is the founder of Yabwi. As entrepreneur, author, and educator, his passion is helping people and organizations achieve greater purpose and joy.

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